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20年后,二胎家庭可能会面临这三大困境,挺无奈的

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第二个孩子被打开了,有些人嘲笑:80年代和90年代之后,他们不敢生第二个孩子,70岁以后,他们会赶到第二辆公共汽车。

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很多人说,第二个孩子的诞生实际上是给孩子一个伴侣,不管是第二个孩子的原因是什么,20年后,你必须面对这三个问题,非常现实,但更无奈!

一,经济压力

中午,我花时间为我的孩子买了两盒钙,买了几包饼干,丢了六百块钱。这不是奶粉。

很多宝贝妈妈抱怨说:这是一个宝贝,它显然是一台破机!

有些人还说这笔钱不是一次性花的,而且抚养宝宝的人就是这样!

我可以等到20年后才能花太多钱。我有一个儿子。在他二十多岁时,你必须为他准备婚礼房间,新车,婚礼钱,新娘价格。然后,我女儿从18岁开始上大学。还有很多费用。

如果是两个孩子,我就把它送到大学,下一个开始准备高考。大学里的两个孩子都在花钱。大学毕业生即将工作和结婚。压力将非常大并且集中。

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其次,孩子抱怨怪癖

父母经常说:一碗水是平的。但事实上,一碗水是扁平的,就像一个生下两个女儿的朋友,就像心中的小女儿一样,小女儿表现得很好,可以说话。

如果父母偏心,孩子将来会抱怨。老家庭中有一个邻居,两个女儿,普通大学的大女儿,中外合资大学的小女儿,学费一年超过1万。大女儿经常抱怨不公平。结婚后,母亲总是带着孩子来,说母亲要补偿自己。

由于父母的偏心和财产分割,这个家庭的两个儿子中的一些人有着千丝万缕的联系。

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Third, bringing a baby is a problem

There are a few aunts in my hometown. When I came to retirement, I went to the age of retirement, but for the two sons to bring the baby, the eldest son and the children, the younger son and the children, a total of four children, two running. Some are close, some are far away, and it is especially hard to take care of children.

The most difficult thing is that the two children will get married and become a family. The old people will be especially busy and especially tired.

The second child may encounter these problems. In fact, if you don’t have a second child, you don’t necessarily have a smooth life. No life is always easy and always smooth. Everyone is going to clean up and move forward.

I remember that writer Mo Yan wrote in《母亲》: Although life is particularly bitter, my mother can sing in the field.

Yes, this is the influence of the mother. Life is like this. No matter which one you choose, there are places that make you dissatisfied. The best way is: smile and face!

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