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孩子屁股被父母“打开花”,弄清原因后,网友都说家长三观正

Nowadays, if you talk about which parents beat the children to be particularly embarrassed, the parents will be attacked by everyone's remarks. After all, in 9102, the concept of parenting of the original "following sons under the sticks" has been ruined by the majority of parents. Throw it away.

However, I saw a picture on the Internet yesterday, a 4 year old child was "opened flowers" ass. To be honest, I just started to see a child being beaten like this. What I thought was, what is this parent? How is your heart so embarrassing? But after I learned about the passing of things, I felt that my parents did not make a mistake.

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Why is this child being labeled like this? Because he threw 15 beer bottles downstairs from the 28th floor! 28th floor, 15 beer bottles! The only good news is that these 15 beer bottles did not reach the pedestrians downstairs, otherwise, things are not as simple as the children's buttocks are opened.

After netizens saw this news, the comments were surprisingly consistent. Everyone said, "Parents are very rational and three views are correct." "This child should really fight." "It is right. If my son, I promise to fight it." I have to be awkward." It seems that this time the bear child was beaten, it is also considered to be "public opinion."

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I have two opinions about the bear child throwing things at high altitude and being beaten by parents:

1. When a child makes something wrong, playing a meal may be a good way to teach

For parents to educate their children, my consistent proposition is to be strict and kind, and to entrust them. It is okay for parents to give more love to their children. But outside of care, education and rules are also essential. If parents teach, Children still do not change their teachings, so it is understandable to play a meal.

Some people always take the happy education of foreigners to say things, saying that foreigners never beat children, and if parents punish children is a violation of the law. But what I want to say is that there are some misunderstandings in the middle.

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首先,尽管许多西方国家不允许对其子女进行体罚,但在西方家庭中对儿童犯错会受到处罚。这不是所谓的快乐教育,上层阶级的家庭和家庭越多,他们的辅导就越严格。例如,一些家庭使用禁闭方法来惩罚他们的孩子。有些家庭打破了孩子的零用钱,让孩子通过分娩来反映他们的错误。

其次,中国的国情和国外仍然存在一些差异。对许多孩子来说,有说服力的教育缺乏威慑力。在中国,许多家长缺乏说服教育的能力。如果您钦佩外国养育方法,您可能根本不向外国学习。教育方式也失去了,成为一个幼儿,最终推迟了教育孩子的最佳时间。

因此,我认为,在我国的父母没有高水平的说服力教育之前,至少在很长一段时间内必须保留这种教育的“玩法”。当然,在这个过程中,我们的父母仍然需要逐步提高育儿水平,使“打击”越来越少。

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其次,父母对于在高海拔地区扔东西负有不可推卸的责任

虽然这次熊孩子遭到殴打,但我认为熊孩子的父母也有不可推卸的责任,甚至说责任更大。因为在父母的道歉中,它还提到他们没有向孩子灌输高空抛物线伤害,这导致孩子在楼下扔啤酒瓶。

因此,我认为父母打败孩子是对的。正确的做法是让孩子牢牢记住这件事,并确保他将来不再犯下这件事。错误的是父母先错了,但错误的后果完全由孩子承担。

当然,父母也不太可能打败自己。最好的惩罚是让整个家庭牢牢记住这件事并将其作为一个戒律。家长不得忽视亲子教育中的安全教育。一些相关的安全知识必须告诉孩子更多以防止此类事件。

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很多时候,我们的父母在教育子女时不可避免地会有疏忽。这也告诉我们,不能掉以轻心地照顾孩子。这个事件应该在孩子独处时发生。如果父母在场,就不可能让孩子。扔了15个酒瓶。

因此,无论是在家还是在外,照顾幼儿,父母都不应该让孩子独自一人,因为可能存在太多危险。特别是现在,当我去暑假时,我的父母不能在家里轻视。即使在家里,也要注意危险事件,如跌倒,玩火,在高空投掷物体。

你怎么看待熊孩子被屁股抬高并被打开的事情?欢迎大家留言!